Not All Ladies Dress To Entice Men

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Halloo,

Why do some people find it hard to believe that most ladies do not dress to entice men?

I speak for myself when I say ‘I dress the way I like and feel comfortable. I am not out to impress, entice, offend, or whatever. I simply do me’

Heaven forbid a woman wants to look good just for herself. It is not possible in some people’s books. It has to be about a man somewhere. Nothing to do with her morale, confidence, or happiness.

I shake my head when some of the people saying this are women themselves. I am always quick to ask them if they dress daily just to impress men. Absurd!

This is how we rob some people off their confidence. The constant judgement on their mode of dressing. Constant criticism blocked people from being themselves.

There are ladies who go out all to impress, not necessarily men in all cases. Some go all out to impress their fellow women. As far as I am concerned it is their lives, let them live it. Nobody can oppress you unless you let them. Especially if you are confident in who you are.

I am still a lover of conservative decent dressing, but that doesn’t mean everybody has to dress the way I do. Some people even believe that my mode of dressing is not conservative enough, so who am I to pass judgement on others?

Experience have taught me not to judge a book by its cover. I have met some really decent people who are dressed in unconventional way. And some really nasty human beings covered up from head to toes.

Be open minded in your dealings with people. Don’t turn your nose up just because someone do not dress the way you assumed to be the correct way. It is never your job to decide how someone else live their life. It is all subjective anyway.

As for everything a woman do is to capture men. Let’s be real. There are women, like me, who couldn’t give a damn who is looking or not. It is never about anyone else but my life and what I like. I think I speak for most ladies in this.

Are men that weak and lack that much self control? Men, avert your eyes. It is that simple. Asking somebody to alter their life to make yours easy is beyond crazy. The duty you owe yourself is to move away from temptations, not hang around it and hoping for it to go away.

Same men will go marrying ladies dressed this way, leaving the conservative dressed ones. After marrying them then start war on getting them to change to conservative dressing. Why didn’t you just marry the conservatively dressed ones in the first place? A lot of headaches would have been avoided.

Let a woman be herself and see how much joy she can be to the world.

Agree or disagree with me, I will still very much like to hear your views. Speak up in the comment section below. Thanks.

Anyone with me on this?

Stay with me

Ruka

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Ruka

My name is Ruka. Born and bred in Nigeria. Now living in Ireland. I am a Woman, Feminist, Wife, Mother, Muslim, Black, and African. I am an Entrepreneur who also works in Finance Administration. I am a Fibromyalgia & Chronic Pain Warrior. I love writing and hope to make a name for myself doing it.

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